pooper diet

Attached is a diet/food list for diaper poopers only which I received from a friend a few years ago, but updated by myself over the years.

I love HUGE semi-soft loads in my diapers. My personal tip is therefore (1-2 days in advance):
* High fibre cereals or muesli (for breakfast) * Lots of salad (i.e. lettuce) * Pasta (or rice or potatoes)
* Brown bread & cheese * Bananas * Dark chocolate (85% cocoa) ...

Enjoy the following list and find out your personal diet.

FOODS THAT DIRECTLY EFFECT FECAL INCONTINENCE

Stimulates the internal anal sphincter to relax:
* Coffee * Chocolate * Tea * Any caffeinated beverages

Irritant:
* Spicy foods
Gas producing:
* Beer * Carbonated beverages

Laxative:
* Fruits
EFFECTS OF FOOD ON THE GASTORINTESTIONAL TRACT

Foods that thicken stool:
* Bananas * Dark chocolate (85+% cocoa) * Rice * Bread * Potatoes * Creamy peanut butter
* Applesauce * Cheese * Tapioca * Yogurt * Pasta * Pretzels * Oatmeal / Oat Bran * Grits
* Boiled milk

Foods that stimulate stool production:
* Dried or string beans * Chocolate * High fibre cereals or muesli * Whole-grain bread * Raw fruits
* Raw vegetables * Highly spiced foods * Fried foods * Greasy foods * Prune juice * Grape juice
* Seasoned foods * Cabbage * Leafy green vegetables (lettuce, broccoli, spinach) * Sweet foods and beverages * Alcohol * Wheat bran

Foods that cause odor:
* Fish * Eggs * Asparagus * Garlic * Cabbage family vegetables (onions, cabbage, Brussels sprouts, broccoli, and cauliflower) * Beans * Turnips
Foods that cause gas:
* Dried and string beans * Beer * Carbonated beverages * Cucumbers * Cabbage family vegetables (onions, cabbage, Brussels sprouts, broccoli, and cauliflower) * Dairy products * Spinach * Corn * Radishes

Foods that color stools:
* Beets * Red Jell-O * Chlorophyll

Foods that may reduce smell (after a while):
* Peppermint tea (peppermint oil) * Parsley * Chlorophyll

This list has not been prepared by a nutritionist nor is it intended to replace a balanced diet such as provided in the Canada Food Guide.

Bambino diapers in Europe

Bambino diapers in Europe

Bambino diapers are now available in Europe. If you are over there check this link out if you haven't already. These diapers are expensive.

You can also see my review of Bambino's here. Let me know what your experience was in ordering or using Bambino diapers!

hat tip to Tobias ABDL blogg

UK Nursery - Human Interest

UK Nursery - Human Interest

A new nursery has opened up in the UK. Here is a news story on the nursery.

There’s a cot, a high chair and some children’s toys and books. A cupboard which is decorated with Winnie the Pooh transfers contains a row of girlie outfits – all frills and bright colours.

But this is no child’s bedroom.

This is an adult baby “nursery”, where people come to dress up and be looked after as if they were infants. The specially-made cot is seven feet long and the high chair is sturdy enough to accommodate the six foot seven rugby player who sometimes uses it.

The article is informative and not focused on "this is weird" human interest.

“People come from all over the country to see me. It’s a small business because I’m not everyone’s idea of a nanny. I only look after ‘soft and fluffy’. I don’t do any ‘sexual services’.

“I’ve seen a wide range of people over the years. My youngest baby is 20 and my oldest is 77. It’s mostly men but I see some women, too.

Read the whole story here

The Diapers They Are a-Changin'

The Diapers They Are a-Changin'




When some people find a good thing, they stick with it

Mike A. lives in Long Beach where he works as a computer consultant. He's 43 years old, single at the moment, categorizes himself as heterosexual, and says he's fairly religious; in general, a pretty average guy. (He also is DPF's Southern California Regional Director - Tommy) Like most folks, Mike likes to start his day with a good breakfast.

He slips into a pair of diapers, puts on a lovely handsewn bib, and sits down on the kitchen floor to enjoy a bowl of oatmeal. After that, he puts on his work clothes and, if he's in the mood, keeps the diapers on underneath his pants.

"It's one of the decisions I make every morning -- 'Do I want to wear a diaper to work?' " says Mike, who does not wear them for any medical reason. "I sleep in my diapers every night. But when I go to work I don't use them, I go to the men's room and use the facilities."

On the drive home, however, Mike will sometimes opt for the particular pleasure of putting his diapers to good use.

"I'll go on the way home, when I'm driving," he continues. "Sometimes number two, yeah. It's kind of fun waddling around with that in there, just feeling like a big kid."

Mike's unique interest in life is infantilism, which Webster's Dictionary defines as, "retention of childish physical, mental or emotional qualities in adult life." Mike will tell you it's all part of being an AB, an Adult Baby, part of being a DL, a DiaperLover.

"This is not something you spring on the second date."

For the last six years he's been a member of the Adult Baby Diaper Club, also known as Diaper Pail Friends, a Web-based organization that's been around for almost 20 years with some 15,000 participants worldwide. The site offers a variety of attractions, from a roster containing thousands of names and addresses to diaper-related stories to a 60-page newsletter published six times yearly.

"It's something that's fairly new in terms of people recognizing others who are into it," offers Mike. "I was 37 years old before I recognized there were others. I was on the Web, and I discovered a human sexuality forum, and they had a section dedicated to adult babies. All of a sudden I realized I wasn't alone. This was a big shame issue with me. I thought I was the only one who was into wearing diapers."

Far from it.

Mike heads the Southern California chapter of the San Francisco-based Diaper Pail Friends (dpf.com -- if you're interested). He communicates regularly with like-minded infantilists, and organizes get-togethers so people can put a face to the online names. They'll do things like eat at Sizzler and go to a movie, happily clad in diapers rustling softly beneath their clothes.

"I've been in contact with ABs from all over the world, from Israel to Hong Kong to England, all occupations, gay and straight, all walks of life, all creeds and faiths," Mike says. "We actually had a Disneyland day a while back, and we had five people from England show up. We met in front of the [Disneyland] fire station. We let our little selves come out but still within the normal guidelines of civilization. We're not walking around with rattles and pacifiers, or nothing like that, just having fun for a day, just letting it loose. I mean, on the ticket you get at Disneyland, it says you can be a kid for a day."

The ghost of Uncle Walt could not be reached for comment.

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What makes an adult -- who doesn't have to -- want to wear diapers?

"I think everybody has different reasons. Some were abused, some were loved to death, some of us were bed wetters, some of us were pants wetters," reveals Mike, who was among the latter. He suffered from stress incontinence, where laughing or sneezing causes something of a mess. Cured in his early 20s, Mike was diaper-free for a few years, then got back into them.

Why?

"I don't know, it's just part of me," he explains. "They were comfortable, and there's that security. With me there's a bit of a sexual gratification in there, too. Masturbation in the diapers; I started doing that when I was 13 years old. There are a lot of people out there who enjoy doing that. There are some people who will wear diapers in public, just for the fact that they're getting away with something, and there are people who wear them for the nurturing feelings. But in the AB community we're very accepting of each other, which is unique."

Trying to find a romantic relationship as an Adult Baby can also be a unique proposition.

"I know people who are married, and the men are into this thing, and they sneak out on their wives," Mike states. "When they go out on business trips, or something like that, they take their diapers along. They call a DPF member, get together, have dinner, talk.

"With me, I've had relationships in the past, and I always set aside that little part of me, just put it back into the closet," says Mike, who is still holding out for that extra special lady. "I would love to bring a woman into this, as a mommy type or a big sister type. Or a little sister type, just to share the nurturing. But this is not something you spring on the second date."

A common misconception about DLs is that they are involved in pedophilia.

"There is a very, very thick line between this and pedophilia," emphasizes Mike. "If DPF finds out there's a pedophile in the organization, they'll kick them out. We want to have absolutely nothing to do with that. This is just about nurturing your little self; pedophilia is damaging."

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Whether your particular kink is model trains or suiting up in extralarge diapers, part of the fun is accessorizing. The Diaper Pail Friends Web site has an online "store," chock-full of everything the dedicated diaper wearer simply must have.

One can purchase hypnosis tapes "developed by one of San Francisco's leading professional hypnotists." The "fully safe" tapes contain "stimulating and exciting imagery, which can be a real turn on. You can customize the process to reduce you to any age of your choice, make you feel like a baby girl or boy, make you suck your thumb or cry real tears."

Beginners might want to look into the Clearing Tape, which "establishes a foundation for success by getting rid of any subconscious negative inhibitions or limitations." Once those pesky bugaboos are out of the way, there are different levels available depending on your needs: Level 8, Bedwetting; Level 7, Uncontrolled 24-Hour Wetting, where one can "enjoy the pleasant sensation of complete and total loss of bladder control"; Level 6, Complete Incontinence.

Then we enter the Solo Baby series, consisting of Level 5, Solo Baby Wets the Bed; Level 4, Solo Baby Is Always Wet; and Level 3, Solo Baby is Wet and Messy. Seasoned pros may want to send for Level 2, Complete Baby is Always Wet, and on to what is surely the black belt of self-soiling, Level 1, Complete Baby Will Always Wet and Mess.

Mike, whose personal staining was confined to his pants, has used the tapes to great effect to enhance his involuntary urination abilities.

"I've worked with hypnosis tapes in the past to help me wet in my sleep," Mike says. "I still have a very active bladder, and I'm a big water drinker."

The store also provides invaluable insider knowledge on how to modify Huggies for adults.

Though these techniques are Huggies-specific, diaper fashion extends far beyond that brand. I ask Mike if Depends, the adult diapers, are a popular item.

"Depends are more clinical," he cautions. "They're kind of green, and they really don't look like baby diapers, where the Attends, which is a Procter and Gamble product, are thicker, they're white, and they have wetness indicators. What I do is I'll stuff a large Pamper in there, so it won't leak when I use it."

Old school purists, however, go for the traditional cloth styles.

"Oh yeah," admits Mike. "I would wear cloth diapers most of the time if I had laundry facilities. They just feel better, and at my age, I was brought up on cloth diapers. But the nice thing about disposables is you can throw them away."

Adult Baby get-togethers are a great way to show off new outfits.

"The last one I went to was more of a fashion show type of thing," Mike says, "where we show off our little outfits. People can spend a lot of money on those things, or they can go an inexpensive route. Some people pick up a sewing machine and make their own clothes. There are men out there who are excellent at designing baby clothes for adults."

Toys are another fun accoutrement.

"Stuffed animals. They come into play, you can just cuddle with a teddy bear, and whatever," explains Mike. "Some of us drink from a baby bottle, and there are some of us who actually drink baby formula, though I would personally find that not very tasty. And some of us eat baby food."

Despite the societal difficulties of being an Adult Baby, Mike maintains it's not something the members of the DPF want to quit; there are no shrink appointments in his future.

"Why would someone want to stop, if they know it's not really hurting anyone, other than maybe guilt or shame or religious condemnation?" he reasons. "I've been studying the Bible for many years, and there's nothing in it against wearing diapers. Jesus wore 'em.

"It doesn't improve who I am or what I do," Mike says. "My job performance is the same whether I wear them or not, and my confidence is the same. I just enjoy wearing them and they're fun. There's nothing harmful about it; it doesn't cause cancer like cigarette smoking, and it doesn't cause liver disease like alcohol. It's relaxing when a couple people are taking about diaper experiences or sitting around showing each others clothes. It's just fun.

This article was on the web, linked to wikipedia. I wanted to ensure it was not lost. This was printed in the From The New York Times and the Los Angeles Times, March 7-11, 1999.

virtual caretaker

virtual caretaker

Some of you without a Daddy or Mommy will like this. If you have a Daddy or Mommy but live apart this would be cool too. Its not really fancy but it does work. I downloaded it and it is virus free. The AB, lets call him "the Baron", that made it available, posted this on DL-BOY.com and RUPADDED.COM

here is the post...

An AB has developed a cool bit of software which acts as one's virtual caretaker. Nothing too fancy, and nothing that caters to really specialized tastes.

The zip file contains Virtual Master v3, a program used to give orders to a submissive while the dom is absent, and a really basic script geared towards generic ab/dl types.

All it does right now is regulate eating, drinking, bathroom privileges, play a short scene meant to be done between dinner and bedtime, and keep track of your behavior with a merit system: the more mature you are, the more merits you get, and the more it treats you like an adult.

Since I'm using the free service only two people can download it at once. Just try again in a little while if it doesn't work the first time.

The file can be found here: h++p://rapidshare.com/files/193716661/Automatic_Caretaker.zip just be sure to replace the "++" with "tt."

P.S. Not a virus.

Pink or blue?

Pink or blue?

Many people like babies in blue and pink. Generally it is assumed if a baby is dressed in pink the baby is a girl, blue clothing told the baby was a boy. Many AB/DL boys gay and straight want to be clad in pink!

It became a colour associated with gay men. The association with gay males is likely in part associated with the Pink Triangle applied to those men incarcerated by the Nazis, identifying them as homosexuals. The other possible connection of pink and gay men is the identification with feminine nature. Society has determined things pink are female.

This is an issue in the AB/DL world. So many adult baby boys want to be put in pink. Pink is the colour they associate with babies, with subjugation. It is similar among both gay and straight identified AB/DL's. It is very powerful and initially humiliating.

I like the colour but something in me wants others to know clearly i am a boy and not a sissy boy. If i were to wear pink, then i would be seen ( at least i think i would be) as a sissy boy. I love boy things and it seems important to me that others know i am a little boy.

Pink was not always seen as a female colour. At the turn of the century it was seen as a sign of power. Being a little lighter than that all time power colour, red.

In the USA in 1914 the Sunday Sental said that if mothers wanted to follow convention, boys should be dressed in pink and girls in blue. What happened?

"At one point pink was considered more of a boy's colour, (as a watered-down red, which is a fierce colour) and blue was more for girls. The associate of pink with bold, dramatic red clearly affected its use for boys. An American newspaper in 1914 advised mothers, "If

you like the colour note on the little one's garments, use pink for the boy and blue for the girl, if you are a follower of convention." [The Sunday Sentinel, March 29, 1914.]"

Or this color "rule" from Ladies Home Journal:

"There has been a great diversity of opinion on the subject, but the generally accepted rule is pink for the boy and blue for the girl. The reason is that pink being a more decided and stronger colour is more suitable for the boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for the girl." [Ladies Home Journal, June, 1918]

It seems that until the end of World War 2 the convention was followed. After the war there was a change as society attempted to address issues of equality between the genders. A switch happened. Just when and how I am trying to discover.

With the advent of the consumer society, the new convention spread rapidly. Its confirmed if you look in any little boys room or girls room. Its clear. If you have a doubt, it is gone. Boys are blue, girls are pink.

It's perhaps no wonder that the Pink Boy by Sir Thomas Gainsborough is one of the great English masters who also painted the Blue Boy, is not near as well known today. Who would have a boy in pink?

Now some scientists, practicing bad science, have determeined there is a gender predisposition to blue and or pink. Read more here.

It seems that Pink is a popular colour among the AB/DL boys, straight and gay. A colour i like but have yet to get myself passed the idea it would make me look like a sissy boy. Perhaps a Daddy will help with that! See our blog here or here.

Updated AB website

Andy's Crib

Andy has a new website, he calls it Andy's Crib. This is a simple site to navigate and has some good information there, especially if you are just starting out.

Andy talks about why he is an AB and has a good Q and A listing.

Andy's Crib

Diaper making tutorial

Diaper making tutorial

I found this guide to making cloth diapers online. This is the finished product!



It looks pretty simple, the step by step guide and pictures lay it out very well.

Diaper making tutorial

wine in baby bottles

Want to drink your wine in Baby Bottle but worried about what others would say?

Check out this restaurant in Paris. They serve up your wine and beer even Orange Juice in a glass baby bottle.

The video shows many people enjoying their fondue and of course their wine, straight from the baby bottle....

Now someone in new york is hoping to duplicate the excitement over baby bottles and wine!

Jacques Ouari, (told the New York Diner's Blog) who owns the Manhattan restaurant said, “... Everybody loves drinking beer and wine from baby bottles - even my father thought it was fun - and I think New Yorkers will like it too. I checked with the health department and as long as we put the bottles in the dishwasher they have no problem with it.”

DL-Boy has free plus features for january

If you want to try out the plus features at DL-Boy go now cause Carl has made everyone a plus member until January 31, 2009. Thats cool as you get many more features to use.

check it out...

dl-boy.com

Part 1 - Being a baby or Daddy or Mommy

Are you trying to be a good baby or Daddy or Mommy?

For the most part it isn't that hard. Both the Baby and Daddy/Mommy just have to let go and get into it. Most people that want this desire it so much they freeze up. Al you need to do is let yourself go and don't get upset if you fall out of your role often. Just go back and keep going.

Daddy/Mommy can help a lot by not referring to the baby in any way that references the baby is an adult. That means there is lots of work for them. They have to do everything from entertaining the baby, feeding, changing of course and making sure the baby is safe in the environment you are in.

The Baby has to let go of his or her big person and let Daddy/Mommy know what they need using the language and behaviour of the age they are supposed to be. A little baby will cry, a toddler might point and a little child might ask but not be exactly clear. Don't get frustrated as i said above if you use some big person words. just gloss over it and keep going. Next time you will do it differently.

Some fun and easy ways to start are with a diaper. Daddy/Mommy can get it rolling easily this way. The Baby shouldn't help unless asked during a diaper change. The most common help needed is to slip a diaper under your bum. If you are asked them raise your bum. Don't do this if you are not asked. An experienced Daddy/Mommy may know how to change you without your assistance.

While you are being changed you can suck on your thumb. Rule number one for babies, if you don't know what to do next or are a little uncomfortable, suck your thumb. That helps remind you that you are a baby. It also helps keep Daddy/Mommy in their role.

After a diaper change, Daddy/Mommy may give you a Bottle or sippy cup. Another good thing to do right after a change is to sit the baby on the floor with some colouring books and crayons. If the baby is right (left) handed they should use their left(right) hand to colour.

The biggest obstacle to staying or getting into our roles is our fear of being laughed at or thought to be silly by someone else. Remember, the Daddy/Mommy and the Baby are there for the same thing!

Part 2 - coming soon

What's the Best Adult Diaper? That depends.

Salon.com has posted an article about adult diapers. Go to the link below to read the results of the test drive

What's the Best Adult Diaper?That depends.
By Justin Peters
Updated Wednesday, Sept. 10, 2008, at 11:47 AM ET

Read more from Slate's Geezers issue.

Aging can be a cruel process. You get liver spots. You slow down. You start hurting everywhere. You take more pills than Janis Joplin in her prime.

But it's not just the physical aches and pains that get to you. Your dignity can begin to evaporate as well. There's the patronizing look from the waiter as you struggle to read a menu. The inability to perform simple tasks that were once executed with ease. The subtle erosion of your independence.

All of these problems are exacerbated when you start urinating in your pants.

Read the rest here at Salon.com

Baby Ella on TV!

Baby Ella on TV

WE Television will air a segment about an adult Baby Girl on April 1. The show is called the Secret Lives of Women, Fetishes and Fantasies.

Synopsis:

"... Then there's Kailey: She's taken the term "forever young" to a whole new level. By day, she's a responsible, dedicated, twenty two-year-old daycare worker. But behind closed doors, she's Baby Ella – a two-year-old toddler who sucks on pacifiers, sleeps in a crib, and wears adult-sized diapers. Kailey is what you'd call an Adult Baby, and her boyfriend is who also happens to be her "Daddy". He reads her stories, plays hide-and-seek, bathes her and changes her diaper. It may seem odd to the outside world but Kailie sees Baby Ella as a way to re-capture her youth and to live her life through a child's eyes."

If someone records it, i can help them put it on the internet as a resource for all of us.

AB/DL

This is an individual on youtube trying to explain ab/dl to the rest of the youtube crowd.



Go to the youtube and encourage him. Be polite and supportive. its really cool to have someone do this.

I scream, you scream ADULT Diapers

Scream TV in Canada does this cool video

Diapers and more adult diapers are making it into the mainstream media...

The CONVENTIONEERS - Baby & Toddler Show

This is just plain fun. Two guys go to a Baby show in their diapers and interview people. How many would love to do that!

Ellen

Talk show host Ellen DeGeneres discusses the recent tragic death of 15
year-old Larry King from Oxnard, CA. Larry was killed because he asked another boy to be his date...

RUPadded.com

Are you a member of RUPadded.com? Cause if your not you might want to consider joining. I do an exclusive story/column for them every month. You can only see it if you are a member there. Tell them boy ricky sent you.

This Months column is the true story of my first time at Daddy's farm and 30 guys show up for a five day party! Whats a lil boy in diapers to do?



The RUPadded forums are entertaining and pretty polite. No real battles like you see on some sites. Lots of people with helpful hints and amusing and enjoyable contributions.

I am not a member of the group running RUPadded nor have I received anything from them or any other sites or products i suggest to readers here or on A boy's Life blog. If someone wants to give me something like diapers or plastic pants or ab clothes thats way cool. If I ever receive a gift or payment i will make it known.

Shoot em up

scene from Shoot em up



It looks like adult baby and diaper fetish is getting more exposure. This follows on CSI that recently did a show around an Adult baby.

Also see A boy's Life, The diaper adventures of a Daddy and his boy

UK sexual reality show "Sin City"

From a segment from the UK sexual reality show "Sin City" about adult babies.



AB/DL Videos on...
Adult baby Info Blog
A boy's Life
and
ricky's youtube channel
Check them out!